1: Dear son,If you keep spending on a woman and she never ask you if you are saving or investing,and… She keeps enjoying the attention,don’t marry her.
2: My son, a woman could be a good wife to you,some could be a good mother to your children, but if you have found a woman like a mother to you,your children and your family, never let her go.
3: My son, don’t confine the position of your wife in the kitchen, where did you get that from?Even during my father’s days, they had farm-lands where women too worked every morning…that was their office.
4: My son, if I tell you that you are the head of the house,don’t look at your pocket: Look if you will see a smile on your wife’s face.
5: My son, I you want to have a long life, let your wife be in charge of your salary. It will be difficult for her to spend it when she’s aware of the home needs and bills to pay. But if it’s in your care, she will keep asking you even when all has been spent.
6: My son, DON’T EVER beat your woman. The pain in her body is nothing compared to the wound on her heart and that means you may be in trouble living with a wounded woman.
7: My son, now that you’re married, if you live a bachelor kind of life with your wife, you will soon be single again.
8: My son, during my father’s days, they had many wives and many children because of their large farm-lands and many harvests, there are hardly any land for farming anymore,so embrace your one woman closely.
9: My son, from here am going old school with you. See under the mango tree that I did meet your mother could be eateries and restaurants of nowadays,but remember, the closest thing we did there was to embrace each other.
10: My son, don’t b carried away when you start making money, instead of spending on those tiny legs that never knew how hard you worked to get it, spend it on the woman that stood by you all along.
11: My son, when I threw little stones or whistled at the window of your mother father’s house to call her out, it was not for sex,it was because I missed her so much.
12: My son, remember, when you say your wife has changed, there could be something you’ve stopped doing too.
13: My son, your mother used public means we called ‘Matatus’ where we used to squeeze in with strangers before we could buy that old car you see outside. Any woman that won’t endure with you in your little beginning should not enjoy your riches.
14: My son, don’t compare your wife to any other woman, there are ways she’s enduring you too and she has she ever compared you to any man?
15: My son, there is this thing you people are calling FEMINISM.Well, if a a woman claims to have equal rights with you in the house, divide ALL the bills into equal parts,take one part and ask her to start paying the other.
16: My son, I met your mother a virgin and I took more heads of cattle to her father, if you don’t meet your wife a virgin,don’t blame her,what I didn’t tell you is that our women had prestige.
17: My son, I didn’t send your sisters to school because I was foolish like many to think a female child won’t extend my family name.Please don’t make that mistake. The kind of female achievers I see nowadays has made the male-gender an ordinary tag.
18: My son, your mother has once locked up the cloth I was wearing and almost tore it because she was angry. I did not raise my hand to beat her because of a day like this, so that I can be proud to tell you that I never once beat your mother.
19: My son,in our days,our women had more of natural beauty,though I wouldn’t lie to you,some had minor painting on their appellation mostly on their arms,the ones you people are calling Tattoos. I will not also lie to you, I didn’t like them that much. However, don’t forget that they didn’t expose any part of their body like I see Nowadays.
20: My son, your mother and I are not interested in what happens in your marriage,try to handle issues without always coming to us.
21: My son, remember I bought your mother’s first sewing machine for her, help your wife achieve her dreams just as you are pursuing yours.
22: My son, if at any given moment you feel like your partner’s decisions or generally your partner is in some way giving you unreasonable or unnecessary pressure, Don’t marry her. Consider it as mother nature’s red flags, don’t be blinded to compromise by strong feelings coming from that liar called heart.
23: My son, don’t stop taking care of me and your mother. It’s a secret of growing old and having children to take care of you too.
24: My son,Pray with your family, there is a tomorrow you know nothing about. Talk to God that knows everything, everyday.